Successful Life Blog

A SHORT STORY _ ( FICTIONAL) If emotions can be turned into words, I don’t mind bleeding whilst I write down my heart on paper. I have grown to love you all my life and I can’t live without you; in fact, I won’t live without you. I only wish you can love me a little, I can actually live with it. I love you so much, Ken. It’s me again Andy and this is definitely the last note I will be writing to you, Love. Ken was about to tear the paper when his wife Grace walked in. It’s from the same secret admirer, right? Let me read it (Grace asked)… You are a lucky young lady that this is the last note will be writing to me, I would have dealt with you if another should arrive (Ken murmurs as he hands the note to his wife). Ken is a married man with 3kids. It’s been 6years of his married life and Andy has been writing to him every single day for the past 1year, of course, he didn’t read all the notes… AT the back of Andy’s note was “I will end it again today, if you can’t love me

You are created to DOMINATE! When you came to planet earth, you were born naked but not empty. You have something to offer. Even before you were born, God has already deposited something meticulous in you and that’s what makes you, you and unique. Have you discovered yours? Your purpose! Your uniqueness! The thing that makes you different! The real YOU in you! Hey! don’t ever think you are empty or you have nothing to deliver or that you’re useless, or perhaps purposeless. You are not a mistake. You are not a biological accident. God created you with a purpose in mind and it’s your job to discover it, fan it into flame and use it passionately. You were not created to be wasted! You were not created to be a slave! You were not created to be small! You were not created to be dominated, rather dominate! You are God’s Treasure. Preciously customized by God. Remember, you are on assignment on earth. Work on yourself, develop yourself, invest in yourself and give o

What is (Real) Love? According to Wikipedia: Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection and to the simplest pleasure. An example of this range of meanings is that the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love of food. Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of a strong attraction and emotional attachment. Love is also considered to be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection, as "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". It is also a compassionate and affectionate action towards other humans. Ancient Greek philosophers identified five forms of love:  Essentially  Familial love (in Greek, Storge) Friendly love or Platonic love (Philia) Romantic love (Eros) Guest love (Xenia)  Divine love (Agape). Which reflects more in your life amongst these c

The first time I was invited to speak to single ladies at a seminar, I said, “Yes!”—not because I was ready, but because it was too good a chance to pass up as someone that has always dreamt of been a motivational speaker and impacting on people especially ladies. (Success, no matter how long you’ve waited for it, always comes before you’re ready for it.) Then I freaked out. “I can’t do it. I’ll open my mouth and nothing will come out. I’m not too good, and so on. But by this time I knew a thing or two. So I made a resolution—the very rare kind that really is written in blood: “I will not, repeat, will not sabotage myself, no matter much I may want to.” I got everything ready—the clothes I would wear, my plans for what I was going to say. Then I was hysterical for two days before the show. On the big day, I pulled myself together, walked in, carried it off almost as smoothly as an old pro, thanked everyone (they were very impressed), went home and got hysterical again. Nobod

Do You Stick to Your Commitments? You probably read that title and thought of your most recent vow of commitment – a course, or your business, or your marketing, or that thing you’ve been putting off. And you probably thought, “Hell yeah! I’m definitely committed!” I’m sorry to say that you’re probably not. Think of all those New Years’ promises people make every year – to go on a diet, to quit smoking, to spend more time with their kids, to focus on this or that. They break those promises. They forget about their commitments. They pretend they never uttered the fateful words. Most people go back to the way things were in just a few weeks. Life’s just easier that way. You see, commitment is easy. It’s just you making a vow. A promise. A statement of potential action. “I’m going to do this!” There. You’ve made a commitment. Pat yourself on the back. Sticking to your commitment takes dedication and effort. Hard,  hard  work. And the dedication to stick to putting in

“Set a Very Specific Goal” What is it that you want to achieve you need to be very clear on what the journey will look like. The goal needs to be specific and have a certain time attached. As a  life Inspirator , I work with a lot of people on their goals. Setting goals puts you in the driver’s seat, giving you the power to transform your life or take a company into the future. As enticing as that sounds, it is more common than not those goals are abandoned. To be successful, check your goals against my ten steps to help ensure you accomplish them. 1. Belief.  The first step to goal setting is to have absolute belief and faith in the process. If you don’t believe you can absolutely transform your life and get what you want, then you might as well forget about goal setting and do something else. If you are in doubt, look around you. Everything you can see began as a thought. Make your thoughts turn into reality. 2. Visualize  what you want. Think of what you deeply desire i